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Fighting Friends.

Serious problem here.

I have two friends that are super close to me, but they are fighting!

My one friend is 15 and she is in love with my 13 year old friend's older brother.

At first everything was cool, 13 was cool with 15 being in love with her brother, but when sparks actually started flying, 13 got kinda upset.

13 said that 15 didn't really wanna be her friend, and that 15 was just using her to get to her brother, which is totally wrong. In fact 15 wouldn't have known about 13's older bro if it hadn't been for me.

Now the bigger problem is,they want me to take sides, and I can't do that. I feel like I started it in the first place!

15 has tried so many different ways to try and tell 13 that what she says isn't true. 15 even told me that she would totally forget 13's bro (even if it killed her, which it would) just to have 13 as a friend again, But 13 JUST WON'T LISTEN!!!

I need some help trying to figure out what to do, any advice please, it would be much appreciated.

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	James	09-Apr-09

Here's the answer: It's not your fight. You don't pick sides. It's typical for 13/15 year olds to want to fix everything, or to get involved. To hell with that, you can still be friends with them, even if they don't like each other. Let me repeat that. You can still be friends with them, even if they don't like that. Tell them to give up being friends with each other, and just don't get involved. Truth is, if either of them get mad at you for not getting involved, then that's not someone who's worth being friends with.

	Johnny Nightstick	28-Mar-09

screw 13 if he wanna be like that forget him 15 offered the painful and unfair to her solution and he still wont accept it....i say tell 15 to keep going wit the bro

	Chelsey	24-Mar-09

You need some to figure out what to do and I need some to figure out what you have written.

	kate	22-Mar-09

huh?

	Reece	22-Mar-09

I am a little confused!

	Andale	20-Mar-09

What?!!!